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Profile text: Funloving, international bear, non scene, German origin, formerly a lifetime in Manhattan, ( East Village)., seeks chasers worldwide for fun, frolic and friendship! Fluctuate between Europe and NYC and Gdl. Mexico for work projects.; If I contact you it means i may be in your area soon., Can host in those locales as well. Hoping for "the one" but in the meantime, I'm open to some "fun." Though no longer in the East Village I can visit you within the US if you like to host and there is heavy mutual attraction. Your digs need not be posh just adequate. Friendly masculine professional into mostly younger than me masculine men. I am very generous of spirit, not of cash, gifts or shopping. (lol!) Don't be shy boys. You're openly gay but... something is still missing. You're straight and married but... there's this need you can't explain. You are scared to verbalize but deep down you know. You need Daddy. You've always needed Daddy but you haven't let yourself be who you really are. I get it boy, I understand. Let's talk about it together and see how we can fulfill this need of yours. Don't be shy. Say hello. I promise you'll be glad you did Clean, ddf nonsmoker a must. I am in and out of the NYC area for work duties. I do not pay, I do not charge⚠️ LOL! Experienced with married men. All will remain between us and expect the same discretion in return. Here for fun - not to jeopardize your identity. "Make sex great again" Discreet, men to service me and get off together wanted ; Please be able to host or have a private place to play. But I can also host. Younger newbies welcome. If the chemistry is right can host for out of towners. Summers often in Europe for work and can host in the family apartment near the German city of Goerlitz. Prefer foreplay over fucking, I'm not often looking to fuck, but can get into massage, oils , bathing, edging & milking, mutual m ,etc. I am in and out of the City. Thanks for all the mentees who have written for the father/son mentoring, and father/son sexual mentoring, a new big trend amongst especially the millennials. UPDATE : Watch apparent entrapment on this site for whatever reason. It just happened to me that a guy 20 wanted to come to see me "right to your place?" he asked , then sent me apparent underage pics unwanted by me. If I am in my 50 s and date mostly 30 and above I have no need or desire for lower than 21 at the least. Why force someone to want younger when its not wanted? Isnt that called some kind of entrapment attempt.? So friends, beware that some guys are actually not who they put in the pic or are not the age they put either, or the weight or whatever. Its a shame we have such time wasters but we do. Can they " get a life" and stop harassing and time wasting innocent SD users who really have no interest in "young-ins" but rather prefer mature sons to complement our mature lifestyle now in our 50 s. So buyer beware ! I enjoy mentoring younger guys/newbies sexually; I am a daddy bear type; am more attracted to younger newbies as they are to me,. HAHAH! Can host for foreign/out of town internet-buddies and friends! I travel sometimes a bit for work, volunteer projects, etc. like to Guadalajara, Mexico and Central Europe; meet ups are possible ! Not looking for phone or cam due to time constraints. UK guys should all put in their ads: LOOKING FOR UK LOCATED PEOPLE ONLY. They lead one on that they are internationally minded but that is almost never the case . ============================================ NOW, YOU CAN END HERE. TOO MANY COMPLAIN THIS IS TOO LONG. AFTER HERE JUST COME POEMS, TEXTS, ARTICLES, AND SUCH. IF YOU ARE NOT INTO THAT PLEASE DO NOT PROCEED. FOR THOSE WHO LIKE SUCH STUFF, READ ON WITHOUT PROTEST, VOLUNTARILY ! =============================================== MY BLOG: Please note that I generally date younger. I have been getting a lot of responses from guys more nearer my age. The problem is that I often am not turned on enough with guys closer to my age, do not like heavy facial hair, etc.,endless emails without meeting or with no real plan to meet. If you live very far away, thats one thing, but locals have no excuse ! ahahahaahah. I am not looking for anal. Can do you if demanded and the chemistry is right. By the way, I don't make someone my priority while they/you are making me their option. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahhaha indeed ! Please make sure your photos are recent, mine are. DUE TO TIME CONSTRAINTS I MOSTLY DO NOT SKYPE OR CAM. SORRY. MORE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE TO ACTUALLY MEET THEN VIRTUAL BUDDIES. (Also, if i send you pics with me and someone else i am NOT indicating that that person is my lover or that I am partnered/or that person EVER WAS my lover. maybe i just could not crop them out or omit them, thats all; by the by: i am obviously the largest one in the pics, thats me ! in the pics are employees, friends, acquaintances and travel companions; they are NOT current ongoing lovers as some of you assume who write to me! thanks !) A few of you have written to me that it leads one on that I am not really available if some other friend is in the pic. It just so happens that friends are in these pics, they are not current lovers: clarification !) Not into: receiving anal, guys that can't get excited by simple things like blow jobs and hand jobs, guys that are pushy and don't respect boundaries . I speak English, German and conversational Spanish. I can get by also in broken Polish mixed with Russian. I often work/volunteer in Eastern Europe in the summer in a hospital. I was a former college level gym and sports medicine professional (instructor), highly successfully and even am still occasionally on national radio and TV, for over a decade at a very major NY university; If you like large daddies you wont be disappointed! you can also write me directly email to: [email protected] Be aware that I do not check my Yahoo account daily. It could take a few days to get back to you. I generally do answer all emails. if you do, please attach a photo and/or your ad so I know who you are, thanks ! please try to include some pics, after all its only fair, you have already seen mine! they don't have to be nude. haha also, remember even hetero penpals exchange pics. it doesn't mean one is gay necessarily. I prefer to NOT play with guys in so-called open relationships but am a bit flexible sometimes on this "rule." Honesty is the best policy! Guys: you should be MORE UPFRONT , HONEST AND TRANSPARENT in your ads if you are really in a LTR and/or so called open relationship . Additionally, I am NOT currently looking for ANY commercial or paid type escort or similar type service. I can provide room and board but thats about it for now. I am open to take a houseboy/son but only for a room and board trade for services rendered to daddy! Sons! Finally, you will love my tool: i have a nice thick, large , cut with nice head tool. In fact once one fellates it , it becomes an addiction ! Even my former lover, for example, who unsuccessfully tried 2 hetero marriages after we parted amicably comes back now and then and begs to fellate it! If servicing daddy bears is your thing, then you have found the right spot! (Some guys complain this is too long, so you can stop here if you want !. hahahhaah The rest is just my ongoing novel for here! ) whats this new fad of not updating your stats when you place an ad: if the guy is writing he is like 22 and then 139 pounds and the pic shows much larger, whats this trend all about? guys , post your real height and weight, it only takes a moment ! stop the laziness ! lol Make sure you can go the "whole round" as it does take me quite a while to come, one of the benefits of being CUT over UNCUT! ( some guys write that they are uncut so therefore i would not take them, that is not so, i may have a slight preference for cut, as that is the norm/standard in North America, but on a personal basis i look at the person and not the circ. status !, i have had foreign lovers all uncut and it was doable, ; i am just expounding here on a slight preference not a iron clad rule !) i am a strong non smoker and cannot be around any smoke/heavy scents/perfumes, etc. as i am a 9.11. rescue worker/first responder survivor; as a result just cannot be around smokers; its probably best for you to not contact me for get togethers if you must smoke, have the smoke/bar smell on your clothes or you and/or must wear heavy hairspray/perfumes/heavy under arm aluminum based deos, etc., thanks. Sorry! I AM a TOP; also out of EXPERIENCE WITH FUCKING (YOU) ; IF YOU ENJOY THAT AND WANT THAT THEN I REALLY WOULD PREFER A little more LTR OVER A ONE NIGHT STAND. MOST OF MY LIFE I DID JUST MUTUAL M AND ORAL, what was formerly called "petting" or "frontage" , WITH MY OTHER SONS (LOVERS) . AS SUCH I AM STILL AN ANAL VIRGIN , WHICH PROBABLY SAVED MY LIFE FROM HAVING THE POSSIBILITY TO GET HIV. SO PLEASE DONT EXPECT MY "FUCKING" TECHNIQUE TO BE SO GOOD OR RELAXED WITH YOU ON A FIRST DATE! YOU MAY MOUNT ME AND RIDE IT BUT PLEASE BE REALISTIC AS TO WHETHER OR NOT YOU CAN REALLY TAKE THE FULL "GIRTH AND MIRTH"; OR NOT.? LOL ! ! --------------------------------------------- ------------------ now for our astrology moments: the Virgos are excellent fellationists and probably the best around ! ---------------------------------------------------------- the Virgos surprisingly hot for one night stands, though ! These are the Sun Signs and Ascendants that I prefer: all of my most intimate lovers have been Sagittarius s !; i also like Scorpios and Leos a lot; Capricorns too. Pisces can be ok too. Libra is fine as well. Virgos can apply to fellate ! lol . As for me : I I am a Gemini with Libra rising and a Capricorn Moon. So all those Libras and Capricorns : bring it on !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am ONLY interested in 18 and over. Lately some guys seem to be posting younger pics or not looking like the age they state. If we meet and you look underage I will ask you for a legal ID to prove you are at least 18, 17 is the legal age in New York State; 16 in Europe. Thanks ! once again on this site, someone wrote me that they were 18 when they later wrote/claimed they were younger, what gives here? let me say again, i am over 50. hahahah , even 18 is too young in terms of interests, digital divide, cultural differences, your addiction non stop to the cell phone/ I phone when I want to have a personal meeting or sex session, etc., please respect yourself and me and do not try to insinuate one wants younger than 18 when its not true !, no time wasters please !, its sad and shameful what kind of falseness this otherwise noble site attracts. Honesty for everyone please ! thanks ! My "prefer men aged" reads for : 20 to 40. Please respect that, thanks. ! I can try 18 or 19 but not if you have a cell phone addiction and can never turn it off to voicemail !~ ======================= WARNING PRIVACY NOTICE: Any institutions/persons/ entities using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects/ or similar - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile, video or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and may be subject to legal ramifications/and/sanction. NO MILITARY/AFGHANISTAN SCAMS PLEASE: some people here and on other sites are into some weird scam where they come out to you as in the military and specifically Afghanistan. These are frauds and scams. Please do not write to me if you are in the military or claim to be. We would not meet ever and I have enough pen pals. I do not believe you are really military and its some kind of internet scam. WARNING PRIVACY NOTICE: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. borrowed from other sites but i liked them: "We always ignore the ones who adore us, and adore the ones who ignore us." silence is an answer too... El silencio tambien es una respuesta -"Never ignore someone who really cares for you! Because someday you might wake up and realize that you lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones!" now for my favorite bedtime prayer; * Now I lay me down to sleep * I Pray for a man, who´s not a creep * One who´s handsome, smart and strong * He´s not afraid to admit when he is wrong * One who thinks before he speaks * When he promises to call, he doesn´t wait 6 weeks * * I pray that he is gainfully employed * Won´t lose his coolness when he´s annoyed * Pulls out my chair and opens my door * Massages my back and begs to do more * * Oh, send me a man who´ll make love to my mind * Knows what to say when I ask "How fat is my behind" * * One who´ll make love till my body´s a´itchin * He brings me a sandwich too, when he goes to the kitchen * I pray that this man will love me to the end * And will never compare me with my best friend * * Thank you in advance and now I´ll just wait * for I know you will send him before it´s too late * * Amen --------------------------------------------- *FOBO: Fear of Better Offer - typically describing guys who stack several possible dates but won't commit in case a hotter guy comes along. It's kinda mean, but really common with NYC virtual boys. --------------------------------------- i enjoyed this list i just found , borrowed from another ad: Top 15 Warning Signs>>> You'll Probably Never Meet the Man: 1. There is no picture in their profile. 2. They are just "checking out the site", "looking around", "curious to see what's here", "bi-curious", or anything "curious" 3. They would like to meet with you but they just came back from a trip 4. They would like to meet with you but they are getting ready to go on a trip. 5. They are currently getting over some illness. 6. They have so much verbiage in their profile, it looks like chapter one of "War and Peace" (oh no! - like mine?) 7. They are not discreet, bisexual and married ++++. 8. They don't have a facial picture anywhere in their gallery. 9. They don't kiss men. 10 They give you a phone number to call. You call, identify yourself, leave a message, and they do not return your call. 11. They don't list a city, only a state.(That narrows it down!) 12. They don't list a state, only a country (that really narrows it down! They must be on a secret mission) 13. You send a nice compliment and they say "Thank you" but don't mention anything about your profile/pix (The unspoken means they are not interested.) 14. You send a nice compliment and never hear back from them. This is actually a good thing because now you know they are a loser and you wouldn't want to meet them anyway, even as a friend. Nice cage, but no canary! 15. They would like to meet you but they have friends staying with them, just started a part-time job, and their dog died last week... ---------------------------------------- of course, the note about the too long ad applies here ! LOL, hahahahhahaha i recently liked this nice fun poem from another site: Frustrating Realizations You find the perfect love but in a wrong time. You find the perfect one, but he's not in love with you. You find the perfect one, but you must be loyal to someone else. You got perfect looks, but no one takes you seriously. You met the perfect personality, but you're bound to be just friends. You got brains, but you have a frail heart. You find the courage, but it's just too late. You're ready to love, but you don't know where to start. my updated email for contact is: [email protected] ------------------------------------------- Summer, 2024: I recently enjoyed this little prose taken from another ad : Men are like a fine Wine..They get better with Age. FIVE RULES FOR A HAPPY GAY LIFE: 1. It's important to have a man who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job. 2. It's important to have a man who can make you laugh. 3. It's important to have a man who you can trust and who doesn't lie to you. 4. It's important to have a man who is good in bed and who likes to be with you. 5. It's very, very, very important that these four men don't know each other. ============================= Update : I found this so interesting as it highlights the many married and closeted men on this SD site who are now beginning to come out since gay marriage has gained more credence. Read on for interest: Washington Post: Ask Amy: Husband comes out; should wife open door? By Amy Dickinson, DEAR AMY: After being married for about 15 years, my husband recently came out to me as gay. I know he loves me and I love him. We are communicating and being honest about how we're feeling. We are in couples counseling together and are trying to work this through and figure out what is the best path forward for our family (we have young children). Through our talks, I realized that his best friend is also gay (he is also married with children). It has become obvious to me that they are attracted to each other, although his wife doesn't know about any of it. I don't believe the two men have been unfaithful, and they are using each other as support through this self-discovery time. Should I say anything to this other woman about her husband being gay? I feel like my husband's friend is not being honest with his wife, and she deserves to know the truth. I'm not sure it's my place to say anything, but I don't think he will ever tell her. This other woman and I are merely acquaintances and I hold no ill feelings toward her, but I'm not sure what to do. -- Secret Holder DEAR SECRET HOLDER: It sounds as if you haven't really discussed this aspect of your husband's story with him but have had a dawning realization that the two men are emotionally involved. You and your husband should start by discussing this openly with your counselor; if the emotional connection between the two men deepens and/or becomes a physical one, what happens to your marriage? I don't think it's necessary to share your theory about this man's sexuality with his wife (so far it's a theory) but you might split the difference by telling her your story: "My husband has come out to me. He is gay. I know our husbands have grown very close, so I thought I would let you know a little of the back story." ================================================= "Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt". Shakespeare, "Measure for Measure" ============================================== borrowed from a recent user but liked it: -----------------Guys------------------ -----------are like apples------------ -------on trees. The best ones-------- ------are at the top of the tree------ -----Other guys don't want to reach---- ----for the good ones because they---- -are afraid of falling & getting hurt- -Instead, they get the rotten apples-- --from the ground that aren't as nice-- -but easy. So the apples up top think- --there is something wrong with them-- ---when in reality they're amazing---- ---They just have to wait for the----- ------right guy to come along--------- --------the one who is brave---------- ----------enough to climb------------- ----------------all the--------------- ----------------way to---------------- ----------------the top--------------- --------------of the tree------------- ============================================= The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision. ~Lynn Lavner. ==================================== Another saying of late: "Love is not about how much you say "I love you: but how much you can prove that its true ! ========================================= if you respond to my ad /and or write to me out of the blue: kindly !, include a pic and a reference to SD or whatever as I get too much fraudulent emails, especially from Russia, and its hard to tell who is sincere and who is not. otherwise I might overlook your kind outreach as a fraud and not answer. thanks in advance! -------------------------------------------- Not into Top/Bottom labels, as its all good depending on the chemistry. "To be naked at home is to be comfortable with yourself. To be naked with others is to be comfortable with the world." .. ★ 7 Benefits of sex with older men 1. Older men come slower - if you want a long, slow suck here's where to find what you want. 2. Older men are more sensuous - they've spent a lifetime of loving other people and are well prepared to show you what they've learned. 3. Older men are more patient - they've seen it all - they've done it all and they're more likely to be patient with newbies and the curious. 4. Older men are more considerate - they've had a few failures in their lifetime and are more considerate and understanding when you have one. 5. Older men are less critical - they know from experience that good looks doesn't guarantee great performances and that sometimes good things come in small packages. 6. Old men's lips feel just as good around a cock as young lips, but over the years they've learned ways to enhance that feeling with a few tricks. 7. Older men know how to be discreet. They don't kiss and tell their friends because they'd like to keep you to themselves. FIVE RULES FOR A HAPPY GAY LIFE: 1. It's important to have a man who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job. 2. It's important to have a man who can make you laugh. 3. It's important to have a man who you can trust and who doesn't lie to you. 4. It's important to have a man who is good in bed and who likes to be with you. 5. It's very, very, very important that these four men don't know each other. ========================================== Borrowed from another site but I liked it: update : <<<< 10 things to keep in mind when entering into a relationship >>>>> 1. Never use the word "love" on-line until you have used it in person 2. You are 60-65 in good health and he is 30-ish. When you are 75 and possibly in need of full-time care, he will be 40-45 and in the prime of his life. This is something you both need to think seriously about. 3. Never make commitments you may not be able to keep, especially with regard to long-distance relationships. 4. Remember that promises are only words, and easily forgotten or broken. 5. Don't be afraid to say "no" 6. Don't ask questions you are not ready to get answers to. 7. Don't tell him what you think he wants to hear, tell him the truth. 8. Relationships require hard work, effort, compromise (or adjustments), time, understanding and sacrifice, none of which will come easily. 9. Know yourself before trying to know him. 10. Remember that you can always love the one you trust but can you trust the one you love? ==================================== Favorite quote: "Men have two emotions. Horny and hungry. -------------------------------------------- ME? Smoking: I do not Tattoos: None Mannerism: Masculine Camera to camera chatting: Not interested Piercing: None Ethnicity : White German Aryan. Eye Color : Blue Green Hair Color : Aryan Blond. Body Hair : Sleek. Facial Hair : Occasional 2-3 day growth, otherwise clean shaven. Body Type : Stocky ; Daddy Bear/Oso type. Endowment: Above average Work: Suit and tie, white collar. Casual. STI: None. HIV Neg. Host or Travel: Either, however meeting in public first would be ideal. Sex: While I have a strong libido and a great number of fantasies, I am not promiscuous and not looking to meet with multiple people.======================================================================================= Life past quickly and opportunity never knocks twice. You must make a prompt decision or you never want to get it. A man who understands life can learn to dedicate, a man who understands friendship can learn the happiness of others. To make friends is a privilege, to keep them a blessing... ~Life is not measured by how many breaths you take, but by how many moments take your breath away.~ "God gave men both a brain and a penis, but unfortunately not enough blood to supply both." Robin Wiiliams 7 Benefits of sex with older men: 1. Older men come slower - if you want a long, slow suck here's where to find what you want. 2. Older men are more sensuous - they've spent a lifetime of loving other people and are well prepared to show you what they've learned. 3. Older men are more patient - they've seen it all - they've done it all and theyre more likely to be patient with newbies and the curious. 4. Older men are more considerate - they've had a few failures in their lifetime and are more considerate and understanding when you have one. 5. Older men are less critical - they know from experience that good looks doesn't guarantee great performances and that sometimes good thing come in small packages. 6. Old mens lips feel just as good around a cock as young lips - but over the years they've learned ways to enhance that feeling with a few tricks. 7. Older men know how to be discreet. They don't kiss and tell their friends because they'd like to keep you to the ================================================== Go carefully through life, the heart you break today may just be connected to the friend you need tomorrow. Many people will walk in and out of your life, But only a true friend will leave a footprint in your heart. ================================================= 7 Benefits of sex with older men 1. Older men come slower - if you want a long, slow suck here's where to find what you want. 2. Older men are more sensuous - they've spent a lifetime of loving other people, and are well prepared to show you what they've learned. 3. Older men are more patient - they've seen it all - they've done it all, and they're more likely to be patient with newbies and the curious. 4. Older men are more considerate - they've had a few failures in their lifetime. We tend to be more considerate, and understanding when you have one. 5. Older men are less critical - they know from experience that good looks doesn't guarantee great performances, and that sometimes good things come in small packages. 6. Old mens lips feel just as good around a cock as young lips - but over the years they've learned ways to enhance that feeling with a few tricks. 7. Older men know how to be discreet. They don't kiss and tell their friends, because they'd like to keep you to themselves. == We cannot recover five things in life: (1) The Stone...after it is thrown, (2) The Word..after it is said, (3) The Occasion...after it's missed, (4) The Time..after it is gone. (5) A person...after they die. =============================================== Does It Matter My father asked if I am gay I asked, Does it matter? He said, No, not really I said Yes He said get out of my life. I guess it mattered. My boss asked If I am gay I asked, Does it matter? He said, no, not really I told him Yes He said, you are fired, poof I guess it mattered .My friend asked If I am gay I asked, Does it matter? He said, No, not really I told him Yes He said, Don't call me your friend. I guess it mattered. My lover asked, Do you love me?? I asked, does it matter? he told me Yes I told him I loved him. he said, let me hold you in my arms. For the first time in my life, something matters God asked me, do you love yourself? I asked, does it matter? He said Yes I said, How can I love myself?? I am gay He said, that is the way I made you. Nothing will ever matter again. ============================================= 3 rules of life. 1. If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. 2. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. 3. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place. ===================================== How modern! Rock star's wife accepts husband's many gay/man on man affairs! Now you re talking ! SEE BELOW: update : Musician Les died suddenly at home aged 65 with his family surrounding him on Tuesday, leaving fans devastated and his wife "heartbroken", his former manager John McLaughlin revealed. In 2009, rocker Lee celebrated his wife as an "incredible woman" after she forgave him for having 12 gay affairs. The Bay City Rollers star first made the revelation during his time filming reality show Rehab for Living TV. He said at the time: "I've been a bit of a George Michael, meeting people, often strangers, for sex." His wife Peko held their family together in the wake of the scandal. Les previously gushed over his wife who he credited for being a "big rock" during that time. ================================== ========================================= "Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt". Shakespeare, "Measure for Measure" ===================================== Benefits of Sex with Older Men* 1. Older men come slower, and if you want a long suck, here's where to find what you want. 2. Older men are more sensuous --they've spent a lifetime of loving other people and are well prepared to show you what they've learned. 3. Older men are more patient--they've seen it all --they've done it all, and they're more likely to be patient. 4. Older men are more considerate - they've had a few failures in their lifetime and are more considerate & understanding when you have sex. 5. Older men are less critical--they know from experience that handsomeness doesn't guarantee good performance. 6. Older men's lips feel just as good around a cock as young lips. 7. Older men know how to be discreet. They don't kiss and tell their friends, because older men want to keep you as permanent friends/lovers. 8. Older men often have more general wisdom and insights about life and sex which they are willing to share with their lovers. Younger men offer enthusiasm, sex more highly charged, intelligence. Both can use their experience to express loving kindness towards those suffering. * copied from another SilverDaddies profile ============================== <<<< 10 things to keep in mind when entering into a relationship >>>>> 1. Never use the word "love" on-line until you have used it in person 2. You are 60-65 in good health and he is 30-ish. When you are 75 and possibly in need of full-time care, he will be 40-45 and in the prime of his life. This is something you both need to think seriously about. 3. Never make commitments you may not be able to keep, especially with regard to long-distance relationships. 4. Remember that promises are only words, and easily forgotten or broken. 5. Don't be afraid to say "no" 6. Don't ask questions you are not ready to get answers to. 7. Don't tell him what you think he wants to hear, tell him the truth. 8. Relationships require hard work, effort, compromise (or adjustments), time, understanding and sacrifice, none of which will come easily. 9. Know yourself before trying to know him. 10. Remember that you can always love the one you trust but can you trust the one you love? --------------------------------------------- The smaller the penis, the bigger the car; the smaller the balls, the bigger the ego; the smaller the brain, the bigger the mouth; the smaller the built, the bigger the attitude! ---------------------------------------------- has the most LGBT and even conservative Poland has 6 % LGBT ! Amazing R. Manz hamburger-menu print-icon print-icon Where It's Most (& Least) Common To Be LGBT+ Tyler Durden's Photo BY TYLER DURDEN THURSDAY, JUN 08, 2023 - 05:45 AM Nine percent of adults identify as LGBT+, according to a 2023 survey conducted online in 30 countries by Ipsos for Pride month. In this survey, LGBT+ includes people who identify as Lesbian/gay/homosexual, Bisexual, Pansexual/omnisexual, Asexual, Transgender, Non-binary/gender non-conforming/gender-fluid and Other than male or female. As Statista's Anna Fleck shows in the following chart, there's notable variation between countries. Infographic: Where It's Most (& Least) Common To Be LGBT+ | Statista You will find more infographics at Statista Brazil has the highest share of people identifying as LGBT+, at 15 percent while Spain comes in a close second place with 14 percent of adults, followed by Switzerland (13 percent), Great Britain (12 percent) and the Netherlands (12 percent). Spain is the country where respondents were most likely to say they are gay or lesbian (6 percent) while Brazil and the Netherlands were where the highest share of respondents said they are bisexual (7 percent both). Meanwhile, the United States comes in just above the 30-country average of 9 percent, with 10 percent of adults saying they identified as LGBT+ in 2023. When looking at sexual orientation in the U.S., 3 percent of respondents identified as gay, 5 percent as bisexual and one percent pansexual or omnisexual. At the lower end of the spectrum comes Ireland and Poland with 6 percent of adults identifying as LGBT+ in each. This contrast is somewhat surprising considering the countries' vastly different stances on LGBT+ rights. Where Ireland legalized gay marriage in 2015 by popular vote with a landslide victory of 62 percent (versus only 38 percent no), Poland has seen a downturn of LGBT+ rights in recent years, with dozens of municipalities even declaring themselves so-called "LGBT-free zones". Peru had the lowest share of people saying they were LGBT of the surveyed countries at only 4 percent. There was also considerable variation across age groups: across the 30-country average, 18 percent of Gen Zers self-identified as LGBT+ population versus 10 percent of Millennials, 6 percent of Gen Xers and only 4 percent among Baby Boomers. ------------------------------------------------- Don't be shy boys. You're openly gay but... something is still missing. You're straight and married but... there's this need you can't explain. You are scared to verbalize but deep down you know. You need Daddy. You've always needed Daddy but you haven't let yourself be who you really are. I get it boy, I understand. Let's talk about it together and see how we can fulfill this need of yours. Don't be shy. Say hello. I promise you'll be glad you did After Coming Out as Gay, I'm on the Outs With My Ex-Wife's Family. Help! A reader is dreading his son's engagement party, where he expects to encounter not only his estranged ex-wife, but a constellation of former in-laws. Share full article 922 By Philip Galanes Sept. 27, 2023 My son, 27, and his fiancée are having an engagement party soon. Some background: Fourteen years ago, I came out as gay, and my marriage ended. My then wife and I were in our 50s. She and I are still estranged, but I have maintained loving relationships with our three children. They will all be at the party for about 25 guests, along with my new partner of 12 years, my ex-wife (who is still single), her parents, my former brother- and sister-in-law, and their adult kids. There is no love lost between me and my ex-wife's family, and I am thrilled not to have been in contact with them for years. I am not looking forward to a three-hour party with them. I have no desire to say much more than hello, and they probably feel the same way. Any advice? EX-HUSBAND I am pleased for you, of course, that you found the courage to live your authentic life, no matter how long it took. But I feel compassion for your ex, too. She may feel betrayed by you - that you pretended to be straight while it suited you, and then abandoned her in middle age. Now, the facts are probably much more complicated, and your coming out may not even be the cause of your enmity with her family. Still, I hope you can acknowledge the complexity here. If I were you, I would take the high road for your children's sake. Try to smooth things out with your ex-wife - even a little bit. Call her, if that's possible, and tell her you want to help make the party comfortable for her and your children. Offer to meet in advance to discuss how she would like the evening to go. She may refuse, but you will have done what you could. Now, I don't envy your having to attend a party that's as fraught with tension as this one seems it will be. Be humble about the role you played in creating this situation - however inadvertently - and be polite to everyone. It doesn't sound as if your former in-laws want to engage with you any more than you do with them. So, after greeting them politely, retreat to friendlier corners and try to make the party a success for your son. ----------------------------------- I'm curious, for all you married closeted men, do you vote for Republicans? I feel like it is a slap in the face for out gay men to have all these closeted married gay men or bi sexual men running around behind their families backs, having sex with men and then voting to support the party that wants the rest of us to lose our freedoms and rights. Consider how your actions affect the community you are secretly using because you can't get laid at home. ----------------------------------------------- I love daddies because: (quote by a daddy & I am totally agreed) 1. Daddies come slower - if you want a long, slow suck here's where to find what you want. 2. Daddies more sensuous - they've spent a lifetime of loving other people and are well prepared to show you what they've learned. 3. Daddies are more patient - they've seen it all - they've done it all and they're more likely to be patient with newbies and the curious. 4. Daddies are more considerate - they've had a few failures in their lifetime and are more considerate and understanding when you have one. 5. Daddies are less critical - they know from experience that good looks doesn't guarantee great performances and that sometimes good things come in small packages. 6. Daddies lips feel just as good around a cock as young lips, but over the years they've learned ways to enhance that feeling with a few tricks. 7. Daddies know how to be discreet. They don't kiss and tell their friends because they'd like to keep you to themselves. So let us start our journey by writing to me ------------------------------------------ "Footfalls echo in the memory, down the passage which we did not take, toward the door we never opened." - TS Eliot You have to be registered and logged in to contact manhattan hugo |
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