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I'm currently living in my hometown (Ben Tre province) and work in education.
I don't drink, don't smoke!
I'm interested in many different things including travelling, languages, music...
I think life is short, so keep smiling and be happy as much as I can.
I'm looking for a LTR with an elderly man who willing to relocate or able to take me there. Who I can share my life with and be happy together. I don't care where to live, as long as we can live happily together as a real couple.
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Although I also often use the word "duyên (fate)". I don't fully understand it! Could you share your perspective on the meaning of "duyên" with me?
In my opinion, among the billions of people in this world, meeting each other and being compatible is already a significant "duyên"! But to live together, we must have something else; could it be "nợ" (debt)? (In the previous life, I owed A 500 million, B 200... In this life, I endure 5 years with A, then 2 years with B to pay off the debt?) But surely that "nợ" means living together just to repay each other, then going our separate ways without lifelong happiness.
So, if living happily together for a lifetime is not "duyên nợ," what would it be? Maybe it's "duyên số"? It sounds like it depends on fate...
But whatever the term, the question remains: "How can two people live happily together?" Isn't that right?
I think it involves many different elements combined: "duyên" + "courage" + "sincerity" + "respect for differences" + "patience" + "forgiveness"...
1. Duyên: This must be an essential element for two people to meet each other.
2. Courage: Having the courage to overcome other factors to give each other a chance... (not fearing a wrong love, being willing to love again? Or after falling once, not daring to love anyone again?)
3. Sincerity: Am I genuinely wanting to find a loving partner? Or is it okay to have one, and okay not to have one... coming together to bring happiness to each other or for some other reason?
4. Respect for differences: Two people are two distinct individuals; being compatible 50% is already great! First, we must connect visually, then in intimacy... If there are things that don't match, can I respect them or tolerate them?
5. Patience: Everyone has moments of anger; when one person is angry, how does the other react? Can they endure it? Gradually explaining the wrongs to each other... or letting egos clash, where one yells at the other, and the other yells back even louder!
6. Forgiveness: In life, who dares to say they are always right? And if one person makes a mistake, is the other willing to forgive? Can we downplay big issues and trivialize small ones? Or do we blow minor issues out of proportion and keep holding onto each other's mistakes?
And of course, everything has its limits!
Do you think so? What other words do you think are important?
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