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		Profile ID: 1665945
Age	72
Height	5'6" ft
	(168 cm)
Weight	148 lb
	(67 kg)
Sexually is	versatile oral versatile
City	Northampton
Zip / postal	01060
State	Massachusetts
Country	United States
Seeking	a date a relationship friends
Prefer men aged upto 75

Profile text:

Profile updated 10-27-24.

Do you think creatively outside the box? Are you willing to communicate and compromise?

I am looking for a life partner, NOT trick. If we do not inspire one another, why bother? Do you understand?

Read my profile as you fall asleep; perhaps answers may appear in a dream. Tell me what you've seen! Was your vision in color? Did you awake out of breath with excitement and raging . . . desires?

Let me teach you to dream in color!

I do NOT want merely to have sex with you. I want to cuddle, seduce you with my fingers, then slowly make love to you. Can you imagine the difference? Let me show you!

I have had THREE Pfizer COVID-19 shots and THREE safer protein-based Novavax shots that use NO experimental mRNA.

I also have had the TWO dose Mpox and the RSV and Fluzone high dose seasonal flu vaccines, as well as all the available hepatitis vaccines.

Call me a pin cushion, if you like, but I am trying to protect you, as well as myself.

The highly contagious Omicron JN.1 variant has spread across the country and mutated again to the KP.3.1.1 variant, so please get an updated COVID-19 shot, use condoms, and show a partner you care about him.

There are more than 2500 COVID-19 variants, so the odds are high that at some point you may be caring for a grouchy sick partner, hopefully for only a short time until he recovers. That is all part of being in a relationship.

The COVID Pandemic is NOT over and perhaps never will be!

I believe in personal responsibility and try to be practical and realistic; if you have a wife, partner, or boyfriend I definitely am NOT the guy for you! I have seen too many men in "open relationships" fall prey to HIV/AIDS, STDs, and myriad parasites.

I want to be your main course, not the side dish.

Sorry, but reality is harsh; the AIDS Pandemic continues unabated. PrEP can destroy your kidneys and weaken your bones! If your physician does not warn you about the serious risks from taking Truvada or Descovy find another advisor!

I no longer am certain sex is even worth the effort and perils. Can you persuade me? Or would I be better off sleeping with a kitten or snoring puppy?

I am loyal and a Demisexual. You might bond with me by revealing who you really are and by sharing your interests and vulnerabilities. I will find you irresistible!

Good looks don't last, but responsiveness and compatibility might. Honesty goes a long way.

I am hoping to meet one special guy, not just any guy. Are you affectionate? Ethical? Can you imagine the future you'd like? Are you willing to talk about yourself, your interests, feelings, and hopes? Or are you a withdrawn and secretive "private person"?

Can you think critically for yourself and defend what you believe? Or do you parrot Network TV, NPR, CNN, MS-NBC, the New York Times, the Washington Post, the Boston Globe, the Boston Rainbow Times, and the British Guardian fish-wrapping papers?

Let me suggest independent-minded GBNews.UK, "The People's Channel", as an alternative. It's weird, but informative and fun.

There are also English language versions of most foreign publications. If you consume both Right and Left-biased opinions, perhaps you will end up believing something sensible.

I don't care who you vote for, as long as you can calmly defend what you believe.

Are you willing to consider someone else's ideas and needs with mutual respect? A lively conversation is a turn on! (A friendly discussion is a debate, NOT an argument or impeachment.)

SAFER Sex is necessary, and still can be passionate and memorable,
BUT . . .

I am tired of immature men, regardless of age. Therefore I am NOT interested in soul-less sex with promiscuous guys or heavy drinkers.

If there isn't more to you, then I'd rather not know you. We would bore each other.

I would like to inhale a WHOLESOME guy who does NOT smoke tobacco. I'd rather you be addicted to me and us. I smoked for 30 years and quit three times before I succeeded. You can stop too! There is no better time to act than now! Ask me for a kiss whenever you need encouragement.

I desire an intimate, long-term MONOGAMOUS relationship; I am seeking COMMITMENT and BALANCE, NOT perfection.

I miss a tender and sensual man's touch and waking up to him by my side. Must this remain a fantasy or may I stroke your hair while you sleep? I would like to explore the contours of your body with the eyes in my fingertips.

Reliable and trustworthy new friends also are welcomed for companionship, day trips, and conversation.

My close friends and I keep few secrets from one another and maintain few boundaries.

I hope you are stimulating company, playful, and know how to grin. I laugh at myself all the time, perhaps because other people think I look like Steven Spielberg. I pity his children!

I admire capable people with passion, integrity, and intelligence -- though I don't care WHAT you are passionate about! I want to respect you as an equal and learn from you.

I value your education, whether acquired formally or self-taught. Credentials rarely impress me. But skills do! It's what you know, what you do well, and how you think and communicate which count! What might you teach me?

Common sense is not taught in college; there is no one left to teach the professors while they all study Marxism! Arrogance, conceit, and impatience are the refuge of those who are insecure.

Those who can, DO. Those who can't, TEACH. Those who can do neither, CONSULT about creating segregated "safe spaces".

Please step beyond your comfort zone!

What can you DO? Would you prefer to fix things or buy new?

What are you curious about? What engages you?

Do you have any hobbies or pets? How would you like to spend your time?

I have many grown up interests which I would like to share, including Historic Preservation and Wildlife Conservation. Are you willing to get your hands dirty while working alongside me?

What are you good at?

IF you have both the desire and enthusiasm, I can offer you gardening opportunities beyond your wildest imagination. Really!

Are you willing and able to share your own interests?

Would you like to intertwine your life, as well as your body, with someone else?

Please tell me why I might want to become friends with you or MUCH more. I am as eager to meet you as you might be to meet me!

How might I nurture and encourage you? What might you like or need from me?

And what might you be able to return in exchange?

An authentic and durable relationship is about shared experiences and willing COMPROMISE, NOT DOMINANCE.

Sex is the easy part and is always negotiable, as long as there is trust and consideration.

But WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT? Perhaps we might figure that out together.

Thanks!

(Picture taken March 09, 2019 at a Chinese banquet. I am NOT a Gay Florist!)

Fantasy can be fun, but I have encountered phonies, foreign "Green Card scammers", criminals, creeps, and weirdos on every dating website, including this one. I have had friends who were robbed, beaten up, or killed after bringing someone home or to a hotel.

Homeland Security requires I examine verifiable picture ID before I employ anyone. I will not meet with you in person until we first exchange proof of identity.

A scan or clear snapshot of your driver's license or passport will suffice.

This is only common sense.

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