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Profile text:Short Version:
Fully vaccinated and 5 times boosted, HIV-.
Bisexual / heteroflexible man, impatient with labels, interested in occasional sex with adults. I am low mileage, good health, non-scene, masculine enough. I look my age, alas. I may not always feel or act it. I'm trim, reasonably fit, and decently well-endowed: 6.5 x 5.5+, cut, with a pleasing mushroom head, a full bush, no facial hair beyond occasional scruff, and light, soft body hair. No tattoos, piercings or attachments.
I'm looking to find FWB / FB's, experienced or not, who value safety and discretion as I do. Much of my experience has been oral receptive, and that still makes me happy, especially if I can exercise some control. I'm curious about it all, or most of it anyway: body contact, firm handling, massage, frottage, (dressage?), oral (from tender to just rough enough), JO, safe penetration, and possibly a touch of kink (spanking). My nipples are not especially sensitive; my scrotum compensates.
Substantial balls nestled in a natural bush are a particular turn on. Tomboyish, gamine-like men are another one. I have never encountered one in the bedroom, but transexuals have intrigued me since I first saw a an androgynous creature with lovely breasts and an immense erection on a magazine cover, long before AI. I could go on.
Extended Version:
I may sometimes be a bit shy initially, even a little clueless. I'm sensual by nature, and I figure a little fumbling around offers its own pleasures. Some mutual massage and body contact at the start helps me to chill. With the right vibe I'm happy to take direction, and/or to give it, as needed.
I'll provide an email address (@Protonmail) if one is needed. My photos are on SD except for face pics, which I share only via email. (The carnality of my profile pics causes me some embarrassment when I'm connecting with a man showing only his face. Discretion dictated that I post either one or the other, and given the nature of the site, I figured genitalia would spark greater interest.) Profiles lacking any photos try my patience and most often fail to spark my curiosity. If you insist on introducing yourself with a close-up of your anus, we are probably not a match.
Beyond the usual repertoire, I'd be up for exploring light kink with those to whom that appeals. Mean-spirited degradation, among other staples of the wider Web, repels me, but intense stimulation of various kinds turns me on. I have enjoyed administering spankings to women who craved that. I envied them the intensity of their erotic experience -- stinging pink cheeks incite endorphins. I'm down for playful exploration with men (getting or giving or switching).
I am better described as a Friend of Dicks rather than a "Friend of Dorothy's," (look up the latter on Wikipedia if you're not familiar-- it's interesting and funny, especially the bit concerning the FBI who thought that there must be a Commie spymaster named Dorothy), which is to say that while I'm generally affable and warm and enjoy physical closeness, I am not especially romantic. Assuming I'm cold sober, kissing may come only once some level of emotional intimacy had developed.
Safety matters to me -- worry about infection is a spoiler -- and hygiene is important. I play infrequently and get tested regularly. Given the recent figures on STD's, I select for partners with strategies more realistic than simple denial.
I'm not looking for chatty, but some willingness to communicate, and some sense of humor, make for more satisfying encounters-- grim muteness just isn't compatible with relaxed fun. Moderate alcohol and possibly 420 are alright. All else being equal, I am less likely to be responsive to those carrying significant excess weight.
First and foremost, I am seeking mindful, mutual pleasure, with one or a few low-key, open, sane, and genuine partners. If first encounters go well, I'd hope to build on our rapport. If it works out that there's a basis for some level of companionship, that would be welcome. I'm not counting on it, and I am not looking for romance.
Please, give me something to go on. If it's not in your profile, share something about your specific sexual enthusiasms as well as an explicit physical description. I never know what to do with very brief messages from men with no photos and minimal information in their profiles. ("Hello" back, but now what?) It doesn't need to be a lot, but I'd like to have some assurance of our physical chemistry and a comfortable vibe. (I have this dick fixation, so, sorry to be crass, but good pictures, at least of your genitals, preferably standing at attention, would provide motivation.) I'm not looking for lots of introductory back and forth. Ideally, we'd exchange a few images of ourselves and chat a bit, either on SD or via email, and go from there.
When I am prowling about SD, it is often with a sense of urgency that doesn't necessarily fit well with plans to meet, say, Thursday after next at 2:15. It might work out that way just fine, but I'd love to create some arrangements which allow for some spontaneity. A sort of Bat signal would be ideal, or something like an Amber Alert.
I'm still learning my way around LA -- If anyone cares to share cruising / meeting places in the area, whether a gallery or theater, or a particularly congenial bar or cafe, park or beach, I would be grateful to learn of them. I have fond memories of sex play in cars in my youth; I'm not so limber now, but I trust lust would find a way. In fact, car sex has some special appeal; something gets sparked by the crazy awkwardness and massive inconvenience of it. I have never ventured into a bath house -- I always found the idea a little creepy, but I may rethink that at some point. (I see the Roman Spas have closed entirely). I see no justification for having to show ID to gain entry; why exactly? Are there alternative venues?. I realize I am dating myself with talk of cruising, but a congenial, non-virtual place to encounter potential partners is a lovely fantasy, especially during the post Craig's List diaspora.....
Very brief rant: What is up with the "privacy notices"? Surely they have zero legal force. Admittedly, there is something titillating about the word "ramifications".
That said, May we all find the happiness we seek....
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