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		Profile ID: 204990
Age	69
Height	5'11" ft
	(180 cm)
Weight	229 lb
	(104 kg)
Sexually is	versatile oral versatile
Partnered	yes
City	Seymour
Zip / postal	37865
State	Tennessee
Country	United States
Seeking	sex partner(s) a date friends couples
Prefer men aged from 55 to 90

Profile text:

Howdy, I'm Bill.

Just to be clear from the from the start if you are a fan of The Great Mistake and his Little Horribles I really don't want to talk to you. At all.Don't much care for any republicans to tell you the truth. Not sure exactly how a man can like Trump and cocks.That's two very different kinds of dicks.

I've been happily partnered with the same man for over 40 years. On December 23, 2014 while on our annual pilgrimage to New Mexico we were married. ( My partner is here at SilverDaddies with a profile of his own. His profile number is 2115948 with the screen name of Ken Tucker. I guess being married makes me an MWM of the gay persuasion but I'm not an initials sort of guy. I find people and life have a lot more depth and subtlety than a few letters can sum up. Same with this top/bottom thing. Each to his own but some men seem to be so rigid about it. Choosing just one seems to me a good way to miss 'bout half the fun. I think of myself as more a side by side man. In any case, I'm not actively looking for any sort of relationship beyond friendship with and without benefits. I can't deny that the thought of sexual adventures is intriguing and exciting. At this point my partner (I still like that better than "husband") and I remain open to sharing life's surprises be they intimate or otherwise, individually or together, with special people we may meet. Exactly how all that might play out and with whom depends on a variety of possibilities. There is one thing to be aware of however. If I am talking to you about a face to face meeting I'm absolutely serious about it and hope (and assume) you are too. I am a huge fan of sexy chats and on-line fantasy talk. I've even been known to turn on a web camera to enhance that (but I must tell you I do prefer the higher visual and sound quality of Skype to the system here). But if fantasy weaving is what we're doing I need to know that from the onset. Actual meetings are realistically likely going to be with men who live within about 50 to 75 miles of Knoxville or who plan to be coming through this area. Western NC and VA and Southeastern KY are outside possibilities. That said, not being close enough to meet does not preclude a conversation---of any variety. And being close enough to meet does not mean we need to do so to enjoy one another's company. Also, be aware that both my partner and I work full time, daytimes Monday to Friday so the logistics of getting together may be a little tricky.

Largely I'm looking to connect with interesting people. I enjoy talking to men, usually around my age or older, from anywhere you might live about sex, the world, basset hounds (we have two), chickens and guineas (we have many of both) books or whatever else might you might want to talk about. If you see me with the cam on feel free to say howdy! I don't quite get why it is in a chat room people are so hesitant to do that. "Chat" after all, seems the operative word here. But at the same time, please if you want to talk, be ready to hold up your end of the conversation, no matter what the subject. Replies like "LOL" "OK" and "MMMMMMmmm" (Why does the M key seem to stick on so keyboards??) usually mean I lose interest pretty quickly. And I'm not likely to respond at all to "r u naked". I like whole sentences, sometimes even two or three together. I don't much care if you can type well (I certainly can't) or spell precisely (in the Chat room where there is an absence of spell check I can't always manage that either) but I do like a conversation to have some content to it. Whether we're talking about best sellers or ball sacks I'm looking for an exchange with you and some feel for who you are.

If you want to get in touch with me leave a message here. I always welcome the chance to get to know new folks. As I said, I do work full time and tend to get busy and distract myself but I'll try and get an answer to you in a day or two. And should I make the first contact and send you a note to say howdy or strike up a conversation, if you don't want to reply then simply don't reply. But please don't just click on a button to send me that "Thanks but we are not a good match" canned answer. Bad enough to blow someone off but to do it by form letter is, well..not how I was taught to treat people. However, I guess it's a fact that if you think that's a good way to communicate with folks we probably are indeed not a good match.

I do notice on here that a lot of men are looking for someone who is HWP. What I don't understand is apologizing for it. As in "Sorry HWP only" or "Please be HWP! No offense, it's just my preference." Why would anyone be sorry for looking for a Happy Well-balanced Person?? I think to be such is something we all strive for. It's certainly not something that needs to elicit an apology. It's not like you are making superficial judgments based on looks or anything like that!

Another Grumpy Old Man harangue about words. If you are over 15 and insist on one word answers and if that one word is "cool" (I'm an old hippie--"groovy" would get you a lot more points with me) please spell it right! There is no "k", no "e" and no "w"!!!

If you ARE 15 you might want to pull up your pants and turn around real slow....your Mom is standing just behind you...

I've been noticing more and more comments like this showing up in profiles here: "Not looking for kissing or hugging. Just hot sex." At least for me I'm not sure the latter is possible without the former. I know you can do it and in fact, I have. But without kissing the passion levels certainly drop. I understand all the social constructs around masculinity, gayness and intimacy and kissing and I can see where the attitude comes from. But still I wonder. If you have decided to suck cock or lick ass or ass fuck in either direction and presumably like to do that, why is kissing some sort of personal taboo? I can only conclude that it has something to do with the presumed shared affections kissing implies. That we as men--gay, straight, bi or anything in between--- feel the need to avoid the activity that's most associated with affection is sad to me. It all says something for how well and deeply macho sex roles and homophobia is socialized and embedded in our culture.

Finally, speaking of cocks in mouths and asses and how well they fit, I found this study to be very interesting. All the internet inches, advantageous camera angles, promises, pumping, bragging and worrying aside turns out they are all pretty much the same size...and that size is NOT eight pulsating inches. It's usually your basic five.

http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slatest/2015/03/03/penis_researchers_measure_average_penis_size_in_comprehensive_new_penis.html


"Meddle not in the affairs of dragons for they find you crunchy and good with ketchup."

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