Patrick's profile
Profile text:I'm a friendly, easy going, quiet but passionate person. I live a very stable life but like to take risk and shake things up once and awhile. I am lucky in that my natural interest aligns with my profession
My Interest includes art, architecture, music, movies, sustainability, building science, woodworking, construction, design, community, and travel. I have been all over the US visited Canada, Mexico, Japan, Russia and 8 countries in the EU.
I am in an open relationship with several men. My two primary relationships are in Portland OR which takes me down there often. The City is like a second home. This poly relationship has been going since 1993
I like having fun and being easygoing. I am a very good person to travel with and have a great sense of direction. I tend to be optimistic most of the time.
On the Meyers-Briggs Personality Test I am an INFP.
I like a broad range of music and it has been an important part of my life. I like movies that are either, serious, documentaries or comedies. I also like good sci-fi movies but they are rare to find. I am adventurous when it comes to food and eat a very wide ethnic variety though most of the meals I eat are here in my community and are mostly organic vegetables and fruit. I eat very good food and during the summer it is directly out of the garden.
My sexual interests have been very much anchored in longer-term relationships with my various partners rather than one-time occurrences. Its not like I expect much time with my sexual partners but I like knowing who they are and being able to trust them. By doing so I am able to open myself up physically and more intimately with them. And the sex becomes fantastic as I merge with the man that I am making love too, I like to do just about everything but am more turned on in taking a passive role and being dominated.
I am orally a giving and receiving person and also mostly a bottom but can also be a top, liking a lot of foreplay. Not into pain. Enjoy provide pleasure to my partner as much as possible...vanilla is fine but I am willing to explore new things safely with someone who goes slowly or not. Sometimes think I wonder what an alpha male would do to expand my experiences.... I am open to friendship and more for someone with similar interests. I am always on the discreet side.
Physically I am 5'9" tall and weigh 180 lbs. My health is great. My HIV status is negative and I get tested regularly. I am also negative for STDs yearly. I like working ouyt at home and also get exercise around the community where I live working in the garden and on the land. I don't have a television or watch TV but I do read a lot.
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