Mikey (MOD)'s profile
Profile text:(Chat room Moderator) I am attracted to younger men. When saying younger age is a factor only. There are men who are 70 that look and act younger and 30 year old's who look and act 90. I am happily partnered with Zach/Duke Profile ID: 2343428, however we are in an open relationship Don't message me with a sexual comment if you don't know me. I will not respond. I am all for fun and friends with benefits. I am a great friend and love new friends. So say Hi.
User Guidance - Room 1
The moderation team within the chat rooms are here to improve your experience. Our primary role is to educate and guide users, we will also mediate disputes in an impartial manner when required. As a last resort moderators will remove you from the chat rooms if you fail to comply with our instructions. We will not get involved in confrontational debates over chat room policy in the public chat rooms. This must be taken to private chat.
Please note: This guidance is for room 1 only. Room 2 and 3 have slightly different moderation styles in place.
- Why am I being removed for bashing and what is mod bashing?
Targeting anyone in the chat rooms is not tolerated. This is applicable to both if they are a moderator or a member of the site. It is also important to be aware that calling out a user in public to embarrass them comes under this rule. If you have a problem with a user, ignore them or contact a moderator in private message. Please keep it out of public chat as you risk getting caught in crossfire even if you are trying to help.
- Can I give out my email or other personal information?
Personally Identifiable Information (PII) is to be given out at your own risk. Your PII in the wrong hands can be misused and can have security implications. For example, if someone got access to your emails they would then be able to reset all passwords for your online accounts including social media and banking applications. Email phishing and identity fraud are all other risks asociated with PII. We strongly recommend to be cyber security vigilant and to only give out this information to members that you have known for a length of time and trust. Consider a safer route such as using a different email address just for your dating or online buddies.
Giving out this information is not against site rules and you will not be removed for it. We also ask you do not make accusations in the main chat room towards users asking or giving out this information as they are not breaking any rules. Calling out users to embarass them comes under the above information towards bashing.
- Why am I being removed for asking Skype, WhatsApp etc?
Advertising other social network platforms is not permitted in the chat rooms. Silver daddies is a service and encourages you to use the chat rooms to chat. Having the chat rooms flooded with advertisements is not the environment we want to set. The benefit of having human moderation is that the chat is taken into context. You can discuss Skype, WhatsApp etc in general conversation but do not advertise for people to use it in the chat rooms.
- Why am I being removed for repeating?
Repeating is where you are repeating the same message either by copy or paste or not changing the context to make it different from spam or advertising. The general rule here is that if you should watch how busy the chat room is and how fast it is moving. Are you repeating a message coming up often enough to cause an annoyance to other members? You will get a warning for repeating before you are removed.
- What is the deal with politics?
Politics comes under the same rules as other discussions. If you can discuss controversial topics in a civil and respectful manner, then we encourage it. If you can't then it is best you keep it in a private message.
- Why was I removed for illegal content?
Illegal topics comes under the international regulations set in place for online content moderation. As set out in the site's terms and conditions any illegal content is not permitted. Examples of this include Incest, Bestiality, Obscenity, 17- chat or images.
- Why is wife/women chat not allowed?
The wife/women chat will again come down to the context that is being discussed. If you want to discuss females in a sexual manner then this will not be tolerated by the team. If you want to discuss your wife or other females as part of a general discussion then this is encouraged. SilverDaddies is a gay website and as such women are not officially allowed on the site. It is important this is respected.
- I am having a technical issue with the website, what do I do?
If you are experiencing problems with the site please try the following: Clear your web browser cache, then close and reopen the web browser. - Disable any conflicting web browser add-ons. - Try using an alternative web browser - Disconnect VPN software. - Mobiles will frequently disconnect to save battery especially when switching apps. Most problems with the site are related to web browsers and not the site itself.
This covers the most common issues in the chat rooms. You can always speak to a moderator if you need anything specific clarified. If you do have any problems relating to the rules or policies on the website it is imporatant to understand that moderators do not have the jurisdiction to deal with such issues. These queries should be directed towards the webmaster by using the Email webmaster /help section on the main site.
LGBTQIA+ Terminology
Aces or asexual people: Individuals who generally do not experience sexual attraction to others of any gender.
Some do experience romantic attractions. Asexuality differs from celibacy in that celibates have a sexual
attraction, but choose to abstain from sex.
AGs or aggressives: Lesbians who express themselves in a masculine manner, such as by binding their breasts.
They are also called studs. The terms are more commonly used in communities of color.
Agender people: Individuals who identify as not having a gender. Some describe themselves as genderless,
while others see themselves as gender neutral.
Alloromantic people: Individuals who experience romantic attraction to others of any gender (i.e., people who
are not aromantic).
Allosexual or zsexual people: Individuals who experience sexual attraction to others of any gender (i.e., people
who are not asexual).
Allosexism: The societal, institutional, and individual beliefs and practices that assume that everyone
experiences or should experience sexual attraction. Allosexism privileges allosexual or zsexual people and leads
to prejudice and discrimination against asexual people.
Androgynes: Individuals who identify androgynously. They have a gender which is both feminine and
masculine, although not necessary in equal amounts.
Androsexual people: Individuals who experience sexual attraction toward men, males, and/or masculinity,
regardless of whether they were assigned male at birth.
Aros or aromantic people: Individuals who experience little or no romantic attraction to others of any gender.
Bi or bisexual people: Individuals who experience sexual, romantic, and/or emotional attractions to people of
more than one gender or people who are attracted to genders similar to their own and to genders different from
their own.
Bigender people: Individuals who experience their gender identity as two genders at the same time or whose
gender identity may vary between two genders.
Biromantic people: Individuals who are romantically, but not necessarily sexually, attracted to people of more
than one gender.
Bois: Individuals assigned female at birth who identify their gender as nonbinary. Because they are not maleidentified, they are "bois" and not "boys."
Butches: Individuals of any gender or sexual identity who present and act in traditionally masculine ways,
which could include being the "dominant" partner in sexual relationships.
Cis or cisgender people: Individuals who identify with the gender that was assigned to them at birth (i.e.,
people who are not transgender).
Crossdressers: Individuals who, at times, wear clothes traditionally associated with people of a gender
different from one's own.
Demigender people: Individuals who feel a partial connection to a particular gender identity. Examples of
demigender identities include demigirl, and demiboy, and demiandrogyne.
Demiromantic people: Individuals who do not feel romantic attraction to someone unless they have already
formed a strong emotional bond with the person.
Demis or demisexual people: Individuals who typically do not feel sexual attraction to someone unless they
have already formed a strong emotional bond with the person.
Dyadic people: Individuals who are born with chromosomes, a reproductive system, and a sexual anatomy that
fit into the prevailing standard for "female" or "male" individuals (i.e., people who are not intersex).
Dyadism or binarism: The societal, institutional, and individual beliefs and practices that assume that there are
only two "biological" or "natural" sexes-female and male. Dyadism/binarism privileges dyadic people and
leads to prejudice and discrimination against people with intersex variations.
Femmes: Individuals of any gender or sexual identity who present and act in traditionally feminine ways,
which could include being the "subordinate" partner in sexual relationships.
Gay men: Men who experience sexual, romantic, and/or emotional attractions to other men.
Gender binary: The social system that sees only two genders and that requires everyone to be raised as a man
or a woman, depending on the gender assigned to them at birth.
Gender fluid people: Individuals whose gender varies over time. A gender fluid person may at any time
identify as male, female, agender, or any other non-binary identity, or some combination of identities.
Gender-nonconforming people: Individuals who do not to adhere to the traditional gender expectations for
appearance and behavior of people of their assigned gender. Some identify as transgender, but others (like butch
lesbians) do not.
Genderism or cissexism: The societal, institutional, and individual beliefs and practices that assume that there
are only two genders and that gender is determined by one's gender assignment at birth. Genderism/cissexism
privileges cis people and leads to prejudice and discrimination against trans and gender-nonconforming people.
Genderqueer people: Individuals who identify as neither male nor female (but as another gender), as
somewhere in between or beyond genders, or as a combination of genders.
Graces, gray A's, or gray asexuals: Individuals whose sexual attraction exists within the gray area between
sexual and asexual. They experience sexual attraction infrequently or not very strongly. Other terms that are
used to describe this identity are semisexual, asexual-ish, and sexual-ish.
Gray romantics: Individuals whose romantic attraction exists within the gray area between romantic and
aromantic. They experience romantic attraction infrequently or not very strongly.
Gynesexual/gynosexual people: Individuals who experience sexual attraction toward women, females, and/or
femininity, regardless of whether they were assigned female at birth.
Heteroflexible people: Individuals who are primarily attracted to people of a different sex and who typically
identify as heterosexual, but who may engage in same-sex sexual activity in certain situations. As it is defined
by the Urban Dictionary, "I'm straight but shit happens."
Heterosexism: The societal, institutional, and individual beliefs and practices that assume that all people are
heterosexual. Heterosexism privileges heterosexual people and leads to prejudice and discrimination against
asexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, and other people with non-heterosexual sexual identities.
Heteroromantic people: Individuals who are romantically, but not necessarily sexually, attracted to people of a
gender different from themselves.
Heterosexual people: Men who experience sexual, romantic, and/or emotional attractions attraction to women,
and vice versa. Also known as "straight."
Homoflexible people: Individuals who are primarily attracted to people of the same sex and who typically
identify as lesbian or gay, but who may engage in sexual activity with people of a different sex in certain
situations.
Homoromantic people: Individuals who are romantically, but not necessarily sexually, attracted to people of a
gender similar to themselves.
Intersex: An umbrella term used to describe a wide range of natural biological variations of individuals who
are born with a chromosomal pattern, a reproductive system, and/or sexual anatomy that does not fit typical
binary notions of male or female bodies.
Lesbians: Women who experience sexual, romantic, and/or emotional attractions to other women.
Masculine of center (MoC) people: Lesbians, queer women, and non-binary trans people who tend toward the
masculine in their gender expression. The term is more commonly used in communities of color.
Monosexism: The societal, institutional, and individual beliefs and practices that assume that all people are
attracted to only one other sex or gender-that one is either exclusively heterosexual or exclusively lesbian/gay.
Monosexism privileges people with binary sexual identities and leads to prejudice and discrimination against
bisexual, pansexual, queer, and other people with non-binary sexual identities.
Neutrois people: Individuals who identify their gender as neutral or null. They may also identify as "agender."
Non-binary gender, gender creative, and gender expansive people:
Umbrella terms for individuals who do not fit into traditional "male" and "female" gender categories.
Includes individuals who identify as agender, bigender, gender fluid, genderqueer, and various other
genders.
Pangender people: Individuals whose gender identity and/or gender expression is numerous, either fixed
(many at once) or fluid (moving from one to another, often more than two).
Panromantic people: Individuals who are romantically, but not necessarily sexually, attracted to others
regardless of their gender identity or biological sex.
Pansexual people: Individuals who are attracted to others regardless of their gender identity or biological sex.
Polysexual people: Individuals who are attracted to more than one gender and/or form of gender expression,
but not to all.
Queer: An umbrella term to refer to all LGBTQ+ people. It is also a non-binary term used by individuals who
see their sexual orientation and/or gender identity as fluid.
Queerplatonic: Non-romantic relationships that involve close emotional connections that are often deeper or
more intense than what is traditionally found in friendships.
QPOC and QTPOC (pronounced "cutie poc"): Queer people of color, and queer and trans people of color.
Same-gender loving people: Individuals who experience same-gender attraction. The term originated within
communities of color as an alternative to "lesbian" and "gay," which they feel does not speak to their cultural
heritages.
Sapiosexual people: Individuals who are attracted to people based on intelligence, rather than gender identity
or biological sex.
Sexually fluid people: While many people will experience changes in their sexual orientation over their
lifetimes, individuals who are sexually fluid experience changes in their sexual orientations more frequently.
Skoliosexual people: Individuals who are sexually attracted to people with non-binary gender identities.
Studs: Lesbians who express themselves in a masculine manner, such as by binding their breasts. They are also
called AGs or aggressives. The terms are more commonly used in communities of color.
Trans or transgender people:
Umbrella terms for individuals whose gender identity and/or expression is different from the gender
assigned to them at birth.
Among individuals who might identify as transgender include trans women and trans men; individuals
who cross-dress or who present androgynously; agender, demigender, and genderqueer individuals; and
others who cross or go beyond traditional gender categories.
Trans men: Individuals assigned female at birth who identify as male.
Trans women: Individuals assigned male at birth who identify as female.
Two spirit people: A Native American term for individuals who blend the masculine and the feminine. It is
commonly used to describe individuals who historically crossed genders. It is also often used by contemporary
LGBTQIA Native American people to describe themselves.
Forthcoming in Genny Beemyn, Campus Queer: The Experiences and Needs of LGBTQ+ College Students
(Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Pre
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