Gary's profile
Profile text:Semi-retired in a full-disclosure open relationship with my husband. Enjoy mutually pleasant encounters with mature gentlemen. Intelligent conversation is sexy. I love to get to know the person I'm with. Life stories are fascinating. I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours.
I love the fireworks of sex, and I adore the amazing softness of the afterglow.
Enjoy travel, theater, literature, world cinema, comedy, and witty conversational repartee. I'm a social drinker, partial to gin, but a bit of a lightweight, so if I'm driving to your place, I won't imbibe unless there is an invitation for a prolonged stay (which might or might not not sit well with my husband--😉).
I can host. Husband and I are very good about being "sexiled" from the house so the other can play without the awkwardness of someone else in the home. I can also travel as needed. We rarely play together.
I'm versatile and mildly adventuresome. If you have a "must do" on your list of desires, say it up front and then there won't be unfulfilled expectations if it's not on my list of can-do items. On PrEP and tested regularly.
No set body type, but I really don't go for younger guys, so if you're 35 or under, it's not going to be a productive use of your time to contact me. I can be attracted to those 35-45 if you are bearded and extremely hairy (in other words--you look 45). Love hairy, smooth, uncut, cut, big, small. Superchubs and super skinny don't usually rock my boat, but then again...exceptions exist to almost every rule.
Spend about 20% of my time working in Iowa. When I'm in California, I work the occasional half-day shift, so have more control of my time.
If you want to engage me, the best way is with a face pic and a smile. The eyes tell me a lot. I was married for 18 years and have 3 kids and three grandchildren. I understand the discretion required of married men. I'm okay with that. Everyone has their own journey.
Full disclosure: I drew the short straw when it comes to body hair. I'm a pasty white smooth Scandinavian with no hopes of being anything else. If I'm not your type, it's okay to tell me right out of the chute. Attraction is irrational, so you don't have to apologize for not being into my type.
I have several lifelong friends that started out as Silverdaddies encounters. This is a great site for meeting nice people!
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