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Put your head on my shoulder, allow me to hold your heart, I'll respond by giving you soft and gentle kisses. Yeah, kinda a romantic here.
That does not mean I am an easy target though.
GREAT EXPECTATIONS, ENDLESS POSSIBILITIES
Open for chat on S. k.y. p.e. or Zangi. Mic or C2C
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Furry BEAR SEEKS OPPOSITE *Single Older guy who generally likes skinny (small-frame guys less than 160 lbs - 72kg). Younger, smooth, Oriental guys to the front of the express lane. Glasses make an Asian guy sexy to me. Most adam's apples are very sexy too on any man. So masculine.
i am Well travelled: Taiwan, Japan and 8 countries Europe
Eventually looking for a partner, I am demisexual.
I like cleanliness, clean shaven and the smell of a good quality men's cologne is great. Body Odor is a major turn-off.
NO MUSCLES REQUIRED
Non-smoker here. I drink very little. I am getting older and now alcohol does not give me the same pleasure it once did.
DISLIKES:
Narcissists and those who want to tell/control- NO INTEREST. IT is a DEAL BREAKER:
I want an equal partner, NOT a boss or someone to tell me what to do. I ask for mutual respect and mutual decisions. You will get the same from me. anything less than that, move on.
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Q: How does it feel when a sexually attractive guy touches your body with excited energy?
A: Wonderful
I'll show you mine if you show me yours.
Our imaginations wait for our mutual pleasures. Small penis is welcome here too. In fact, Only a boy knows how another boy feels.
A BIG TURN-ON
Looking for fun or maybe more. really enjoy frotting, mutual verbal, and intense edging. Not really into anything anal.
►recent on Covid booster shots completed
I do not want someone who walks ahead of me. I do not want someone who walks behind me. Instead, I want a man who walks with me, side by side - as a team.
To inspire each other to be better men.
I offer sensual touch and relaxing massage to the point your toes will curl. Sit back and enjoy each other. Giving and Receiving.
For myself, I like get to know someone at a natural pace. and just getting to know him, takes time... Romance is ideal but never perfect. "MAN MUST SIT ON RIVERBANK LONG TIME BEFORE FISH JUMP INTO MOUTH"
Love is something that is intentional and takes work.
For me, I do NEED a body massage, especially back and neck. (Muscles are always tight in those area's because of pinched nerves)
No picture of you = no chat with me
TO THOSE WHO SEEK A RELATIONSHIP
please read the book: "The Male Couple, How Male
Relationships Develop" Published in 1985, relevant today as it was then.
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I love male to male frottage - hmmm beautiful and incredibly sexy. I have a new unused sex toy "cockblock" from Canada. Saving it and waiting to do with a sexy partner. It will be intense.
I just love male wieners (peanus=penis) - pointing up, pointing down, pointing to the side. Soft or hard. Or, even bulging in your pants, white underwear, swimwear (love to see the bulge and penis profile).
I love all male penis. Small penis is great too. Like some more than others. (grin. LOVE tight balls.
Shaving (cock & balls)
I like it for my partner and for myself too. If my partner likes hair, great. I will stop shaving for him.
I like the idea of both shaved smooth, oil up and rub our bodies together till we both cum. Feeling your boner rubbing on my body and mine on yours is my fantasy. I do like to see a trimmed male hair bush too, Oh hell, I like 'em all. Some more than others !
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Why would a younger guy like an older guy?
Here's why:
~Older men cum slower - if you want a long,
slow suck here's where to find what you want
~Older men are more sensuous - they've spent
a lifetime of loving other people and are
well prepared to show you what they've
learned
~Older men are more patient - they've
seen it all - they've done it all and
they're more likely to be patient
with newbies and the curious
~Older men are more considerate -
they've had a few failures in their
lifetime and are more considerate and understanding when you have one
~Older men are less critical - they
know from experience that good looks
doesn't guarantee great performances
and that sometimes good things come
in small packages [and i love small
packages, yummy]
~ Old men's lips feel just as good
around a cock as young lips - but
over the years they've learned
ways to enhance that feeling with
a few tricks
~Older men know how to be discreet.
They don't kiss and tell their friends
because they'd like to keep you to
themselves
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Remember:
Men have 2 emotions, SEX and HUNGER, If I am standing in front of you bare-naked with a full boner, I'm horny and ready. ;-)
My cock knows what it likes and gets hard when it finds what it is looking for.
I am stocky with a football player type body. I am as furry as a bear (my legs, not so hairy). Physically, I seek the opposite body-type of me: clean-shaven, slender-smooth, small frame.
Curious about intersex?, much more for me to share & learn.
A shaved crotch drives me wild. IMHO, a bald dick just begs to be suckled too. ;-) or better yet, I can help with the bald part, if the trust is there. ;-)
Eventually, I DO want a LTR. Finding the right man is not easy, I like them, they do not like me, vice versa etc. life goes on. . . and the tribal drums keeps beating
Not everyone is attracted to me and me to them. That is just how life happens. I am not perfect nor do look for it in a partner. Just be yourself and see how we match up.
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Seeking gay/bi friends, maybe more, I really like oriental Asian guys +++ ^____^
Again, I am seeking opposite me: a non-bear, smooth/shaved & slender/skinny
Yes, I like smooth.
LTR oriented.
if you tell me you are looking for a LTR first off, then pass me by. You cannot find a partner that way and doing so makes me very suspicious of your motives. It is also a major turn-off and DEAL BREAKER....
Love comes AFTER you get to know the person.
AND there is an engagement time before marriage. Those are my rules and my boundaries that I follow.
If I DO meet Mr. Right and we are dating (in person), I am loyal as a puppy dog, no matter what. You will have my full attention and would like yours in return
Your beauty will catch my eye, your character will capture my heart.
My definition of character:
>*honesty; your male partner can usually tell if you are honest;
>*integrity:(3)
1. to do what you say you will do;
2. no wiggle words i.e. maybe,
someday, etc; and
3. Character = honesty/integrity: what you do even when no-one is watching shows character ~{to do the right thing no matter who is watching}
4. Love is when your words match your actions = congruent
I enjoy good conversations and volunteering in my community. Love cuddling and wrapping my arms around you (spooning) and keeping you warm. xie xie ;-)
For fun, I like to ride my sport bicycle, sometimes for a long distance, swimming, museums, listening to all kinds of music - variety in music keeps life interesting
MUSIC
I like all kinds, no one special diet. Recently I started enjoying the 1940's swing music, (Glenn Miller, Louie Armstrong, Frank Sinatra, including some oldies with a heavy beat like Roy Orbison, 60's Diana Ross & the Supremes). I do like international music too (Chinese, Spanish, Live African drum music, Japanese all sung in their native language, etc)
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I still keep my silver/white beard neatly trimmed.
I like to look forward to a variety of things on the creative side. Role play sounds interesting. I would love exploring fantasies together.
If it happens eventually, I want to live together with my partner ~~ to enjoy the rest of our lives together.
Favorite TV star: Grant Imahara (Japanese) from U.S. cable TV show "MythBusters". Sadly, he passed on in mid July, 2020 from a brain tumor. He was only 49 years old. :-{
Konnichiwa, come grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
(I would like to speak Korean, Tagalog, Vietnamese, Maylay. but I do not know how - yet. Or at least a few introductory words anyway).
WHAT DO I WANT?
Again, I am not seeking marriage/lifetime partners RIGHT now. What I AM LOOKING for is **emotional literacy and to get to know someone without pressure or drama. Let's just slow-down and see how things develop and how our personalities mesh, okay?
**Emotional Intelligence - literacy. do a Search on it
These viewpoints and disclaimer(s) are mine. It is my bullshit and it is up to me to say where my boundaries are. Whether anyone else follows this or not, is none of my business.
HIV- and always play safe. Always.
I try not to take life too seriously. I sometimes fail. Life is an adventure, not a play that requires actors. Sumimasen, if you are an actor.
I do not like fake/false people/personalities. Type A personalities are not my favorite. Just be your natural authentic-self. That is the best kind of friend to have. All others are just pretentious 'actors' with ulterior motives. They want something. I avoid and do not like pretentious men. Move-on Narcissists (covert or otherwise) see youtube, same subject.
I am actually a nice guy and authentic. What someone owns (toys) or WHERE they live do not make any difference to me. However, your character DOES make a difference to me.
P R I V A C Y D I S C L A I M E R
To you guys that put the privacy disclaimer in your profile. I hate to burst your bubble, but here's the scoop. People are really laughing at you.
You look like the person who walks out of a public restroom with toilet paper stuck to your shoe. Everyone else sees it, but you.
Read on . . . .
At least in the USA, if YOU put something on the internet, it is considered to be in the 'public domain'. That means you no longer own it and have no control over it (excepting copyrighted material).
People are laughing because this sham was really intended as a joke. And people keep repeating it !
Why are people laughing? Your "Privacy Disclaimer" in your profile is NOT enforceable by anyone, not even you ! A threat of legal action is like pounding sand and people are laughing at YOU. You do not scare ANYONE with your threat of 'legal action'. jeesh
Suppose for example, someone has violated YOUR privacy. How would you even attempt to find/stop them? Who would you sue and how would you find the bad guy who started it? How much money is considered enough? Good luck, not that you would need it.
You put it out there on the net, others can do what they want with it. There is no expectation of privacy on the internet. The threats of 'legal action against those who violate your privacy is just plain 100% bull-shit.
Whoever told you otherwise has yanked your penis and fucked you in the ass, and you do not even know it yet. -until now.
Nothing is free from the internet AND you/we/I give up our privacy to get it. e.g., all instant messengers, cell phones, any emails etc. Read the disclaimers for them. You will just shit your pants.
I have been honest to the best of my ability. I know what I like and my dick gets hard when I find it.
Give me a shout and do not take it personally if I say, sorry. Not everyone is attracted to me and me to them. That is just life.
如果你对我感兴趣,请联系我并留下邮箱地址,谢谢
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Note: I am the person responsible for what I have written and put in my profile. If you have a problem with it, it is your problem. And yes, I wrote everything above.
IndyBear69
Here's more:
blah blah blah, if you have read this far, you 'might' enjoy what is below.
. . . . there's a lot of talk in this
country about the federal deficit. But
I think we should talk more about our
empathy deficit - the ability to put
ourselves in someone else's shoes;
to see the world through those who
are different from us - the child
who's hungry, the laid-off steelworker,
the immigrant woman cleaning your
dorm room.
As you go on in life, cultivating this quality of empathy will become harder, not easier. There's
no community service requirement in the real world; no one forcing you to care.
You'll be free to live in neighborhoods with people who are exactly like yourself, and send your kids to the same schools, and narrow your concerns to what's going on in your own little circle.
Not only that - we live in a culture that discourages empathy. A culture that too often tells us our principal goal in life is to be rich, thin, young, famous, safe, and entertained.
A culture where those in power too often encourage these selfish impulses.
They will tell you that the Americans who sleep in the streets and beg for food got there because they're all lazy or weak of spirit. That the inner-city children who are trapped in dilapidated schools can't learn and won't learn and so we should just give up on them entirely.
That the innocent people being slaughtered and expelled from their homes half a world away are somebody else's problem to take care of.
I hope you don't listen to this. I hope you choose to broaden, and not contract your ambit of concern.
By the former President Obama, selected remarks from the then, Senator Obama during his commencement speech at Northwestern University,
Evanston, Illinois, June 16, 2006. USA
^^^
Arigato gozaimasu. I hope we both find what we are looking for - just for fun or perhaps more.
DEAL BREAKER: no pic in your profile = no chat
Parting thought:
Happiness is a journey, not a destination. So work like you don't need money, Love like you've never been hurt, and, dance like nobody's watching
FANTASY
I never liked fly's until I opened one
I like boyz
I like naked boyz
I like boyz boners
I like boyz who walk with a boner
I like boyz who swing a boner from side to side, up and down
I like what boyz do alone
MY TRIBUTE TO MY LOVE FROM LONG AGO:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFUDub7m3cU
In person, I enjoy edging my partner slowly. He submits to control and obeys. He will wear a blindfold for unknown pleasures to come. He will listen to my voice while he takes a sexual fantasy trip. He sits back and totally relaxes. He is in his own sexual fantasy with me guiding the way or his way - . Sit back and enjoy.
It is my pleasure to participate and to get you even more excited. Your boner in my hand tells me all that i need to know. its all good.
POPPERS
I liked them. Not now.
Before and for a long time, I used them almost daily and every time I got off. Go out dancing? Used poppers. Sex? used poppers. just relaxing at home, used poppers. alone or with my partner, used poppers.
As I have gotten older, I now realize the mistakes of my youth. If you look at my two profile picture(s), you will notice I am wearing oxygen tubing. After using poppers for many years, my doctors discovered that I was not breathing deep enough and my oxygen concentration in my blood was way too low. Especially when sleeping or in a relaxed position, heart rate slowed and breathing too.
I believe it was because I used poppers. They had been slowly destroying my lungs. I realize now that I became a poppers addict. couldn't get off without them.
I notice over time that I kept needing more and more inhales from them to get the same euphoric high to get me off. So, the lesson is this: I discovered poppers were harming my body. really enjoyed them at the time. Now. i realize I was damaging my lungs and body. I was also depriving my brain of needed oxygen. Neurologic testing revealed that my 'working' memory has been significantly reduced.
What others do with this information is none of my business. You choose what is best for you. I didn't know at the time. Wish someone had warned me, maybe I would not have to wear supplemental oxygen 24/7 now. Indybear69. October 18, 2022.
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